I’ve been sick with the flu on and off for the past week and instead of taking it easy and sleeping and focusing on getting better, I have just been working harder and going on as if I am not sick. Let me say this, mind over body thinking hasn’t work for me because a week a later I am worst than I was before. So last Thurday, after another long work day, I get home at 10pm eat and go to bed and end up having one of the weirdest dreams I have had in a while

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I dreamed that I was part of a family of witches, but the funny thing was that none of of my family members were actually related to me because we all looked different. My family and I would go through different obstacles battling demons and ghosts. The last battle we had was with a ghost at his house and during it he fell in love with one of my sisters, we didn’t kill him but he vowed to get revenge and get my sister and to keep her for forever. After that everyone started noticing that the sister was slowly being drained, becoming a shell of her old self. The ghost was slowly sucking the life out of her. Weird I know but go with it. So to keep her from completely being drained the other “sisters” and I take her out for her bday to a bar so we can all let loose. While I am on the dance floor, I notice this cutie looking at me, but all he is doing is looking and not making a move so to get him to come over I pretend to fall on the floor and “hurting” my ankle. Mister eye candy rushes to my side and brings me to a couch. Side note: it kills me that I am better at getting a guy’s attention in my dream than I am in real life, smh. So mister eye candy brings me to the couch I sit on his lap and we start talking. I’m asking him questions about himself and “getting to know” him better. Problem is that since I am a witch, I can read his mind so me asking all of these questions are just a formality because I already know the answer to all of them. Finally  mister eye candy kisses me, and it is the most passionate kiss I’ve had in a while, another sad observation. But this is all cut short because our “father” is outside picking us up. So I offer mister eye candy a ride home because I know that he didn’t drive and that the bus 30 doesn’t run as often this late and that his neighborhood isn’t great, this is all without him saying anything to me. Why this dream is specific, I have no idea. I’ve had this dream before but in reverse where my family and I are the ghost’s house fighting him to get my sister back because he has her and wont let her go.

I am usually pretty good at interpreting dreams, mostly others’ and sometimes my own but this one left me puzzled. When I tell my friend Nikki and my cousin Nat about it, they both said that I have the most vivid imagination ever. Since the dream didn’t make sense to me, I just though that  I shouldn’t have gone to bed right after eating. But still decided to tell one more more person about it because it couldn’t just be that I am crazy or that I have a vivid imagination.  And it turned out that she gave me a really good interpretation.

” The sister that is being slowly drained and sucked in by the ghost represents one of your friends or an actual sister or someone really close to you that you think that you are slowly losing to someone.” That made perfect sense since I view my friends as my sisters and one in particular I have been worried about being taken away by her bf forever. Yes I am that clingy and one of my biggest fear is to have those who I care about the most leave me. The reason behind that will be part of another post.

” Winnie you have this thing where you think that you already know what every guy you meet is already thinking, and that nothing he will say will be anything new. So you set him and you up for failure before anything even happens” Damn, even my unconscious is tell me to stop being so picky and judgmental.

After hearing her say that to me, the dream wasn’t so weird anymore. I guess sometimes dreams do have meanings behind them. Have you ever had a dream that helped you figure something out?